Tired of being someone that you are not?

ARE YOU TRYING HARD TO BE SOMEONE YOU ARE NOT BUT SOMEONE YOU WANT TO BE? We all have been deceived by the fact that only the perfect form of you is the best form that you can project to others as well as to yourself. But, sadly,we often forget that moulding your character to people's expectation and yours will not help but only brings you lack of satisfication and depression. There are many ways you can try to get back on your feet and start doing things your way which could possibly be the best way and also gives a sense of accomplishment and satiisfication in your life. Now,first,what makes you happy? Laughing at jokes? Patting your dog? Or playing a sport? Whatever that makes you happy will eventually comforts you in a way and you will remember the type of person you are by witnessing the situation that makes you happy and comfortable. :)Second, forget about what others think of you and if anyone tries to change you or make you to adapt to their behaviour or conditions which sometimes unpleases you,here is what you are going to do; 1) Don't try to stop them. 2) You have to decide whether you are feeling happy or not about it. 3) Change your way with them by being kind and rejecting their orders slowly. 4) Try having some DISTANCE between you and your friend or anyone. Stop being attached to him or her or seeing them for few a days which means less meetings and short conversations except for important matters. 5) Look back and analyse if you could see any difference after that. 6) Ask youself; Am I happy? How do I FEEL now? Relieved? Free? AM I in a clear state of mind? 7) Be sure about youself and your feelings. Think wisely about your decisions and every move you make. 8) Confidence.Gather all the confidence you needed if you are feeling happy about your move and act on it. 9) Keep going. As you know,you just have to do whatever that makes you happy. Because this is your life for you to be yourself and confident about, if not who else will be. ;)So,CRACK THAT BEAUTIFUL SMILE OF YOURS AND START LIVING.:)